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What about the ceremony?!

Happy New Year! This is the time of year when a bunch of new “soon-to-be-weds” post their rings and start to think about wedding dates. Wedding professionals call this "Engagement Season!" This is such an exciting time because you begin to imagine all of the beautiful, intentional, and show-stopping details you'll have on your wedding day.


But when it comes to planning a wedding, one of the most important (and often overlooked) decisions a couple can make is the type of ceremony they want to have. Of course, this is based on whether you will have a religious ceremony with specific scripts, a ceremony in a church, etc. While many couples may opt for a traditional wedding ceremony with a script that has been used countless times before, there are also many benefits to considering a custom wedding ceremony.



One of the main benefits of a custom wedding ceremony is that it allows you to make the ceremony your own! You can infuse your personalities and values into the ceremony, making it a truly unique and meaningful experience for you, your partner, and your guests. A custom ceremony allows you to choose every aspect of the ceremony, from the opening words to the pronouncement, and even the officiant. This is especially important for couples who come from different cultural or religious backgrounds, or for those who may not subscribe to any particular faith.


Your ceremony should reflect both of your beliefs, traditions, and experiences; that is the whole point of a union, right?!

In addition to being a personalized experience, a custom wedding ceremony can also be more inclusive. Traditional wedding ceremonies tend to have strict language and traditions that may not represent all of your family and guests.


By creating your ceremony, you can ensure that it will be inclusive and welcoming to everyone, regardless of their background, beliefs, and identities.



Another benefit of a custom wedding ceremony is that it gives you the space to be more creative and expressive with your wedding day. You can choose to write personal vows or include unique rituals and traditions that have special significance to them. As long as you choose additions that connect with you and your partner… it can make the ceremony more engaging, intimate, and memorable.


You could include unity rituals like a sand ceremony, hand and/or foot washing, tasting of the 4 elements, or tree planting to symbolize the joining of your two lives. Or you may even choose to include a cultural tradition, such as a tea ceremony, Hawaiian lei exchange, or wedding rosary ceremony to honor your heritage. These types of personalized touches add depth and meaning to the ceremony and make it a lasting moment for everyone involved.


Consider this your reminder about the power of having a custom wedding ceremony! Include elements you connect with, that add intimacy and allow you to be present in the moment. Your ceremony can be an unforgettable experience and set the energy high for your reception.



Traditional wedding ceremonies can sometimes feel formulaic and impersonal; with the same script and traditions being followed over and over again. But as couples lean into personalized details to make their day feel authentic to them, it’s important that we don’t leave the ceremony behind!



Overall, while traditional wedding ceremonies have their place and they may work for some couples, there are many benefits to considering a custom wedding ceremony. By taking the time to write a custom ceremony, you can have a unique and meaningful wedding experience that you and your guests will never forget. A custom wedding ceremony allows you to infuse your personalities and values, create a more inclusive and welcoming experience for all of your guests, and be more expressive with each moment shared.


So, if you're engaged and considering your wedding ceremony options, be sure to give some thought to the possibility of a custom wedding ceremony (instead of a template floating around on the internet). It may just be the perfect fit for you. If you don’t know where to start, consider letting us write a custom ceremony for you, using Laughter at the Altar as a writing guide, or keeping a look out for our upcoming ceremony templates.

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